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To the Single Girl Who Wonders if She’s Enough

March 29, 2023 in devotions, encouragement, singleness
To the single girl who wonders if she's enough I get it – when it looks as if no guy is choosing you, you feel like you’re not enough. Like something is wrong with you or you are lacking something that every other girl must have. Have you ever felt like this? It is so easy to go on a downward spiral when you
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Does God love her more? / All Things Allison Marie

Does God Love Her More?

February 26, 2023 in dating + relationships, devotions, encouragement, singleness

I think we’ve all thought this question before, “Does God love her more than me?” At least subconsciously. It can be so easy to wonder when somebody else is getting what you’ve wanted and prayed about for so long. A boyfriend, a job, a...

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How to Find Your Identity in Jesus and Not a Man

How to Find Your Identity in Jesus...

January 31, 2023 in dating + relationships, devotions, encouragement, singleness

Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, or married, it is so easy to try and find your identity in a man. I think it’s truly because we were made in the image of God, and so it is natural for us, in a perfect world,...

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When You Don't Want to Trust God with Your Singleness - Bethany Beal from Girl Defined

When You Don’t Want to Trust...

July 8, 2022 in devotions, encouragement, singleness, trusting God

Today’s post is a guest post written by Bethany Beal from Girl Defined Ministries. I pray it encourages you when you don’t want to trust God with your singleness! Friday night was here and I found myself sitting alone in my bedroom…again.  This was...

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5 Important Things to Look for in Your Future Husband

5 Important Things to Look for in Y...

January 18, 2022 in dating + relationships, lifestyle, singleness

My husband and I got married a little over a month ago, on December 4th. Before then, I read countless blogs and books all telling me what I should look for in my future husband. All of them were great qualities to consider as...

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5 Practical Tips for Single Women While You Wait

5 Practical Tips for Single Women W...

October 5, 2021 in devotions, encouragement, singleness

Hi y’all! Today’s post is a guest post by my new friend, Angie Woods. Both of us have a heart and passion for those of you that are in the season of singleness, so we decided to write posts for each other’s blogs. You...

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A Christian Guy's Perspective on Dating

A Christian Guy’s Perspective...

May 2, 2020 in dating + relationships, lifestyle, singleness

I am so glad you all enjoyed last week’s blog post: the Q&A with my boyfriend part 1! That post was more about our relationship specifically, but we got so many other good questions that were more general. So we’re tackling those today! I...

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5 Things to do as a Single Girl to...

January 27, 2020 in encouragement, lifestyle, singleness

Hi y’all! One of the topics requested by some of the people that took my survey earlier this year was how to prepare for a relationship even while you are single. So that’s what I want to write about today: 5 things to do...

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Is it Possible to Desire Marriage a...

October 21, 2019 in devotions, encouragement, lifestyle, singleness, trusting God

I’ve been working hard at becoming content as a single girl lately. I know it is so important, and 1 Timothy 6:6 says that godliness with contentment is great gain. In my own life, I know that I have more intimacy with God and...

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10 Fun Things to Do as a Single Gir...

October 12, 2019 in lifestyle, singleness

My friend Mandee and I decided to do a collaboration post, and we wanted to do something light-hearted and fun! So I am writing a post on fun things to do as a single girl and Mandee is writing about self love. Definitely check...

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I think I first heard the term “working home” I think I first heard the term “working home” in my friend Katy’s (@faithful.homemaker) newsletter. At least, I’m pretty sure that’s what she called it. Basically, we live in our homes and spend a lot of time there. It’s okay, more than okay, if it looks lived in. Right now, I have baby toys in the middle of my living room and the coffee table is pushed to the side. Aesthetically, it’s not ideal. But it works so well for us right now. Another example would be that we moved our exercise bike into our bedroom. Again, it’s not ideal, but right now, that’s the only way I would be able to use it. It would be difficult for me to go out to our shop/garage to use it with a baby.

Things do not have to be perfectly aesthetic. All that matters is that your family is well taken care of and that you can easily use the things that are important to you. My home is still clean and organized, but things might not be exactly where other people think they should be. But my days are simpler because of it.

What’s one stressor in your life that could be eliminated by simply moving an item to a more convenient location?

……

You can read more homemaking tips in my new blog post, My Top 5 Homemaking Tips for the Christian Woman.  Link in bio! 🤍
Tomorrow is my first Mother’s Day, and I’ve ju Tomorrow is my first Mother’s Day, and I’ve just been reflecting on how thankful I am to be this little boy’s mama.  I always wanted to be a mom, but I never expected to have a baby so soon.  I couldn’t imagine life without him though, and I know God’s timing is so perfect.

Motherhood hasn’t been easy- I’ve had to learn (and am still learning) how to hold myself and my baby to a standard of grace and not perfection, I am still trying to accept my new body and be thankful for all it’s done, and realizing my time and schedule isn’t my own anymore has been a challenge at times.  But all in all, I’m so thankful that God has chosen motherhood to continue to sanctify me and make me more like Him.

I’m so thankful for my little buddy. 🤍
For my birthday this year, I wrote a blog post on For my birthday this year, I wrote a blog post on 23 things I’ve learned in 23 years.  It was so much fun to write!  Today is my actual birthday, so it went live this morning.  The link is in my bio if you’d like to check it out! 🤍
Anyone else a perfectionist? I think I’ve alway Anyone else a perfectionist?  I think I’ve always been one, but lately, it’s felt all-consuming. 

I want my body to look perfect even after having a baby.  I want said baby to be on a perfect schedule.  I want my home to look perfect when my husband comes home from work.  I want to always have the perfect words to say when somebody I know is hurting.  I want the food I eat and the groceries I buy to be perfectly healthy, while staying perfectly in our budget.  And I often hold others to that standard of perfection.

But last week, I was reading in New Morning Mercies by Paul David Tripp (March 11), and he said something that made me stop in my tracks: “If you don’t keep the eyes of your heart focused on the paradise that is to come, you will try to turn this poor fallen world into the paradise it will never be.”

This world is not perfect and can never be the paradise that we yearn for.  My desire for perfection is the desire for paradise, and if this world can never be paradise, then my striving for perfection is futile. 

I have to give myself and others the grace that Jesus so freely gives to us.  I have to keep my eyes on the future paradise that will fulfill all my longings for perfection.  I have to do my best and know that on this side of eternity, that is enough.  And I have to keep my eyes on Jesus, who is perfect and can fill in the gaps where I fall short.
When I was single, I was more vulnerable and share When I was single, I was more vulnerable and shared what I was struggling with more openly on social media with the hopes that I could encourage others going through the same thing.  Now, I don’t do that as often. 

One morning last week, around 4:00 while I was nursing Levi, I was thinking about why I am not as vulnerable on social media anymore.  I realized that it was because now, my life involves two other people that I’m trying to protect.  I want to respect their privacy and not share our struggles with the rest of the world.  Middle of the night thoughts are so profound 🤪

My point in sharing this?  It made me realize that just how I am protecting my family by not posting the hard parts of our life, others are doing the same.  Social media truly is a highlight reel, and I’ve been trying to do my best to remember that as I scroll through perfect moments while dealing with a tough situation in my own life. 

Everyone has struggles, even if their life looks perfect on Instagram. 

I just wanted to post this as a reminder to us all to stop comparing our imperfect lives to a highlight reel of somebody else’s. 🤍
When Jason and I were dating, it was a struggle fo When Jason and I were dating, it was a struggle for me to find my identity in Jesus instead of him.  I tried to look to him to find my fulfillment, and that never worked for long. 

I did the same thing at times when I was single.  I tried to find my identity in my relationship status.

And now that I’m married, it’s easy to try to find my identity in my husband.

I’m guessing I’m not the only one.

That’s why I wrote the blog post “How to Find Your Identity in Jesus & Not a Man.” It’s an encouragement to us all as we put God first and try to love others well.  The link to read the post is in my bio!
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